Gay Men's Friendships Invincible Communities
- List Price: $64.00
- Binding: Hardcover
- Publisher: Univ of Chicago Pr
- Publish date: 06/01/1999
- ISBN: 9780226568430
- ISBN10: 0226568431
Nardi explores the meaning of friends to some gay men, how friends often become a surrogate family, how sexual behavior and attraction affect these friendships, and how, for many, friends mean more and last longer than romantic relationships. While looking at the psychological joys and sorrows of friendship, he also considers the cultural constraints limiting gay men in contemporary urban America -- especially those that deal with dominant images of masculinity and heterosexuality -- and how they relate to friendship.
By listening to gay men talk about their interactions, Nardi offers a rare glimpse into the mechanisms of gay life. We learn how gay men meet their friends, what they typically do and talk about, and how these strong relationships contain the roots of larger cultural forces such as social movements and gay identifies and neighborhoods. Nardi also points out the political and social consequences when friendships fail to provide support against oppression.
An intimate and informative look at gay life in urban America, Gay Men's Friendships ultimately shows how these relationships challenge the gender order of our society by questioning how masculinity is constructed and by offering a model for a more creative blending of gayand heterosexual masculinity.