"This book provides an invaluable 'how to' guide for a situation for which few of us are prepared -- how to deal with the death of someone with AIDS. . . . It's tragic that the times demand manuals like this. It's extraordinarily helpful that, at last, we have one". -- Randy Shilts, author of And the Band Played On

"A must read for anyone struggling with AIDS grief. . . ". -- Betty Berzon, author of Permanent Partners

This book is for anyone who has lost someone to AIDS.

The fear, anger, and discrimination that often accompany an AIDS death can keep grief-stricken lovers, family members, and from receiving adequate help and support While grief is part of any death. After You Say Goodbye focuses on the special problems and needs that follow an AIDS-related loss.

Separate sections are devoted to parents who cannot count on support or understanding from their friends; to live-in. partners who do not have the legal benefits and protection of spouses; to gay, lesbian, and heterosexual friends who feel helpless and outraged; and to caregivers who themselves suffer burnout. Dr. Paul Kent Froman provides a practical, spiritual, emotional, and activist guide for anyone dealing with an AIDS death.