"And I remember, as we headed back to my house, I thought of telling Rebecca that I loved her, but for some reason, I didn't. I don't know why I didn't. I suppose I figured it'd make her uncomfortable, or maybe that it'd make me uncomfortable. It's strange how love can make us uncomfortable".

Those were the thoughts of Dan Saferstein the last time he saw his sister.

This moving memoir begins with Rebecca's death, a watershed event in which he sees his life change, a change that makes him feel a renewed sense of love for his life and his family, and a deepening appreciation of his marriage.

Saferstein shares with the reader his newly acquired life lessons, taking them on his journey of self-discovery that has led him to a deeper meaning. He builds here on a tradition made familiar by Rabbi Harold Kushner, Marianne Williamson, and Mitch Albom, but in a voice uniquely his own.